Saturday, September 18, 2010

Best B'day Ever!!

      This year's birthday is the best in my life!! I've never celebrated my birthday with friends before and I find it rare for my family to celebrate it for me too...I had so much fun that I'm sure that I won't forget this for my entire life ^^ Having WTC crashed(11/9/2001) falls on my birth date looks unfortunate but I don't really mind. This year's classmates are the friendliest of all...Thx guys!! You rock my world~~~
Me and friends
We love to *peace*
I thought I only get to make 1 wish...but they call me to make 8 wishes...some are for you guys too! ^^
After all...it's you guys who gave me the celebration I won't  forget!!
My b'day cake...although it's not much but I'm grateful of it
cutting the cake
Playing games...1,2,3 don't move!!
getting drunk on ORANGE JUICE!!! hahaha...juz kidding
can u guess what shape is tis?

      Friendship can be bitter-sweet but if we treasure them...they'll always be sweet!! No matter what happen in the future...please don let go of your friend's hand and forget them...FRIENDSHIP is harder to find than LOVE...you'll know how empty it is when you lose them!!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

1Malaysia still far away...

      Although the "1Malaysia" concept only popped out lately around last year, we Malaysian had been together since long before independence. I don't understand why our PM still needs to appeal on this matter. I've been living in my small home town with people from different walks of lives. It's never been difficult to communicate with other races. I've enjoyed living with them, it's seems like the boundary of races never existed between us.


      Through my perception, I think that older people have better relationship with friends of different races. Try asking a Chinese and he will give a reply that "Oh, that's my best friend Raju!!" and vice versa for other races too. But younger generations nowadays have a different view of being together with different races. Discrimination has appeared to be stronger compared to older generations. It's not that all the younger generations are discriminative...it's just that most of them didn't bother to mix with other races anymore...


      This was shown when I went out shopping with a bunch of Malay friends in a shopping complex. Out of 11 people, I'm the only Chinese. I never felt out of place when I'm with them. I enjoyed being with them more than being with Chinese. But then, some people (Chinese, Malay or Indian) walking beside us whispered "hey, look at that Chinese girl...she's going out with a bunch of Malays...what is she thinking?" and most of them were teenagers. I really want to yell at them "OH, PLEASE!! This is Malaysia for god's sake!! Who bothers to only walk with people with same skin colour?"


      Older generations are different...most of them didn't mind talking to people of different races. I can talk to a "Mak Cik" beside me in the bus till I reach home although I've never met her before. But when I look at other people, they don't even bother to talk or look at the person beside them. Some even ignore the person. I found that disappointing, annoying and irritating. It's not a good attitude to ignore people when they say something. (Ok, ignore if they're down right weird!) At least listen to them 1st and give simple answers like "Yes","No","I'm not sure" or "I don't know". That's the way to go. Just hope tat Malaysians can mix with each other just like in the olden days.